Flight Over the Ocean
We made it! I’ve been sharing stories on Instagram, in case you’re also there, and you want to follow along with us. It’s also been great getting feedback and recommendations from people from Taiwan or who have visited there recently or often.
Jon dropped us off at Union Station, then drove home and took an Uber by himself to meet us there. Otherwise we’d have had to have booked a more expensive larger vehicle to accommodate for five bodies, including one baby, and luggage. We also happen to live quite close to Union Station, so it didn’t take too long.
We took the Union Pearson train up to Pearson airport, which is so convenient, and which I highly recommend. It comes fast, is very comfortable, relatively inexpensive ($25 for the two adults, I think the kids rode free).
As we were checking in our bags, we saw one disappointed traveler having to check an oversized carry-on, and so Caleb and Naomi had to make sure their bags fit in the carry-on tester.
Caleb, reading books right as his level, haha, just kidding (I think/hope).
On the plane, Jon sat separately from me and the kids because he’s on a different return flight, coming home earlier than us to take care of things at the shop. Flying with all the kids was both terrible and not as bad as it could’ve been, which I guess is saying that the potential for things going very wrong was quite high.
It was a 1:45 am flight, which on first glance sounds brutal. However, the flight timing optimized for reducing jet lag. you leave at 1:45 am, and the flight is basically dark the entire time, although they do serve you two meals in dimmed lighting, and you arrive and “wake up” at 5:45 am Taiwan time, ready to go.
Actually I would choose this flight as a solo-flying adult again (ah, one can dream). Unfortunately my children are optimized for as much chaos as possible. The kids slept from 2 am until their usual 7 am wake up, and then stayed awake for basically the entire flight until they crashed two hours before we arrived.
That being said, their natural circadian rhythms being feral to begin with, here in Taiwan, they seem okay with the jet lag, basically variously super charged and then fading fast at random times of the day, i.e. their usual states.
We made it as a screen-free traveling group, although the kids had a lot of fun watching the updated flight map, our tiny airplane flying over the ocean. It’s a weird feeling walking around and seeing everyone around us in waiting rooms or in lines or on the subway heads bowed into their phones. Work is all-consuming, social media can be a lifeline of community, e-books are easily downloaded and read in small sips, but I’m all up for the challenge of a little boredom and creativity mixed together.
Once upon a time I read a line from Annie E. Proulx about how planes are flying reading rooms, and it’s stayed with me ever since. I’ve realized how satisfying it can be to walk away from all (most?) of life’s responsibilities, laundry, emails, groceries, anxieties, relationships, and to walk to with 4 or 10 or 16 protected hours of sitting with a book or two or your journal and maybe some snacks. A gift!
And even more so to be headed off into an adventure.
Comments
Nurul said:
Love what you said about plane time. I remember the first time I felt being on a plane was the most relaxing – for the longest time I didn’t have to take care of anything. Pure bliss.
Screen free plane time is MOST IMPRESSIVE too. Mad skillz.
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Wonder Pens replied:
It is bliss! These days, the space and time to focus is a true gift.
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Wonder Pens replied:
Thank you so much!
Sam said:
e-readers and the TPL’s e-books were essential for our multi-month family travel last year, but even more so were the audiobooks, an iPad, and bluetooth headphones. It felt like as parents, we got all the benefits of kids’ screen-time, without the kids getting the brain-rotting costs.
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Wonder Pens replied:
What a great idea! And the TPL is such a fantastic resource that you can access from anywhere in the world. I might have to get Caleb set up with some audiobooks for the return flight…
Phoebe said:
We are going to be doing this trip with our 4-year-old this fall! She’s a good flyer but never flown this long before, so reading your post makes me feel 10x better, ha. Did you end up buying assigned seating for everyone (minus Jon) to sit together? Can’t wait to read more about your Taiwan adventures soon.
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Wonder Pens replied:
We did choose our assigned seating to sit together, however, I think if you’re a family they will help you out as needed.
Wishing you good luck from the airplane spirits!
Noboru Watanabe said:
That photo of Junya with the Rubik’s cube is adorable.
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Wonder Pens replied:
She’s just trying to keep up with Caleb and Naomi :)
Anna said:
You are a wonder! I made that trip with three slightly older children. SO many trips to the bathroom. My partner (now ex-) sat far away in flight on purpose!
Once in Taiwan my problem was restaurants – not so many places for 5 to sit together when we were there. But my older kids enjoyed sitting alone and we managed the smallest.
Taipei is my favourite places in the world!
I wish you all a relaxing trip.
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Wonder Pens replied:
We are finding that we have to be choosy and sometimes walk a bit farther to find a restaurant to accommodate our whole brood. Worth it! With so many great restaurants here. I can see why Taipei is one of your favourite places—it’s working its way up there for me, too.
emmy said:
Real talk: are you screen free all the time with your kids? If so, that’s so impressive. Even doing it on a flight like this, I honestly admire. I wish that I had more self-discipline, even though I do try to spend as much time on other hobbies and passtimes as possible.
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Wonder Pens replied:
I’m not screen free all the time with the kids! The kids play video games, although usually we reserve video game time for us playing together as a family, or the kids playing with friends. We also have family movie night once a week. I think because we don’t have a TV, just a projector that has to be set up we don’t end up watching very much TV. It’s an endless battle, and I think we’re all just doing the best we can! Caleb always wishes he could play more video games :)